In Matthrew 7:1-5, Jesus issues a warning we love to quote and rarely want to obey: “Judge not, that you be not judged.” He’s not banning discernment; He’s banning a condemning spirit.
The heart of His command is this: use mercy as your measuring stick or expect your own life to be measured by the same harsh yardstick you use on others. As French novelist Honore de Balzac observed, “The more one judges, the less one loves.” Jesus calls us to love enough to see clearly.
Scripture balances the command. We must make right judgments (John 7:24), and Jesus soon tells us to spot false prophets by their fruit (Matthew 7:15–16). So the question isn’t “Should Christians judge?” but “How?” Righteous judgment weighs facts, motives, and context; judgmentalism rushes to condemn, assumes the worst, and enjoys doing it.
Two traps make us judgmental. First, appearance: we size people up by looks, style, accent, fitness, or polish— showing favoritism or disdain without knowing their story. James 2 forbids that.
Second, experience: we treat our preferences like universal virtues and our intentions like excuses. We judge others by their actions but ourselves by our intentions— and call it fairness. Jesus exposes both moves as hypocrisy.
That’s why He gives the plank-and-speck picture. My sin is closer to my eye, so it ought to look bigger to me than yours. If I minimize my plank while maximizing your speck, I’m not qualified to help—I’m likely to harm. Jesus’ order matters: first remove the plank from your own eye; then you’ll see clearly to help your brother with his speck. The aim is restoration, not humiliation.
How do we practice righteous judgment without becoming judgmental?
• Right order: Start with self-examination. Pray, “Lord, show me my plank.” Confess quickly; repent thoroughly.
• Right heart: Move toward people with humility and hope, not superiority. Ask questions before making claims. Gather facts; slow down the social-media snap verdicts.
• Right purpose: Speak truth to serve, not to score points. Correction should feel like surgery with care, not swinging a hammer for sport. When we must confront, we must do itgently, aiming to restore.
Jesus’ promise remains sobering and sweet: the measure you use will be measured back to you. Choose a generous measure. Be known for careful facts, soft tones, and a wide mercy that still tells the truth. When you do, you’ll see more clearly— and help more helpfully.
If you’re ready to trade the gavel for grace and learn how to discern without a condemning spirit, come practice with real people at LECC—we’ll even help with plank removal. You’ll find us at 415897 Highway 9, Eufaula: small group Bible study at 10 a.m., worship at 11 a.m., and Wednesday night all-age activities at 6:30 p.m.No robes, no gavels—just neighbors learning to measure like Jesus.
God Bless You!
Jeremy Little, Minister